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How ca i talk to a girl without getting nervous
asked in love, relationships

Topaz2308 answers:

Everyone gets nervous when speaking to someone new as it is trying to find some common ground between yourselves to keep the conversation going is the key.

Try to relax as if you get het up it will make you stumble the conversation and you will feel foolish and then get even more nervous. Take deep breaths and try to remain calm and think of things you would talk to your friends you already have.

Be friendly to the girl, listen to what she has to say and for god sake be honest as there is nothing worse than finding out you are being lied too. Don't try to be to funny or boastful but just be yourself and if she is interested she will reciprocate the conversation.

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wumpus answers:

Practice, practice, practice.

Don't imagine yourself jumping into bed with every girl you meet, and don't assume that just because a girl says "hello" she wants to jump you.

Join clubs, societies, etc. which have female members, then you can meet and talk to them in an environment where there is no pressure to "cop off" as soon as possible.

Be yourself. Don't try to impress. Don't be pushy.
But do appear to be genuinely interested in them, not just their naughty bits.

If you ask a girl out and she makes an excuse, say "some other time then?" If the answer is still no, be a gent and back off.
If she's interested, she'll remember you because you were a gent.

And remember that even the best guys fail to chat up girls most of the time. If you get a positive response 10% of the time, you're doing well. Don't feel rejected just because one isn't interested.

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xoloriib answers:

Pretend you don't want to have sex with her.

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Bubs86 answers:

Just be yourself! If she likes you for who you are then she is worth talking to if she doesnt there are better suited people out there for you! Try finding out what you both have in common and starting opening with that. She will immediately feel comfortable! Good luck!

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seacommander answers:

Relax. Be yourself. Don't try and talk 'big'. Don't hog the conversation - listen to the girl; find out about her interests etc. And don't forget - females are leagues ahead of males in their perception of character, body language etc. She'll see straight through you if you put on an act of any sort.

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